- someone with a stable career
- he pays his bills on time (because my credit sucks and i need someone to take care of my money.. or lackthereof)
- he doesn't mind me having a child.. and all that entails
- wants more children
- he gets along with my son. swimmingly.
- a christian.
- he is taller than me
- great sense of humor.
- slightly sarcastic
- doesn't think me talking about poop is WEIRD
- understands my quirks
- my biggest fan and vice versa
- enjoys concerts and some of the same music i do
- not a party guy.
- doesn't drink in front of little dude
- educated
- shows affirmation
- likes dogs
- one-girl kinda guy
- scruff is a bonus. mmm.. beards.
- he is a family guy
- my family approves of him
- he likes my mom
- enjoys nights in
- not into playing games
- enjoys adventures
- understands my planning nature
- reliable car
- open book with me
- NOT a smoker
- no hunters
etc.
i'm not picky. and i'm sure no one really meets all of those requirements. some are just some "wants" but other i can't compromise on. you think he exists? because i'm not into settling. xoxo
LOVE this list -- and the fact that you're not settling. Go girl!! I'd also love to read a list re: what you would bring to the relationship... because I can see that you'd bring a whole lot. Try that exercise and see what happens. Hugs!
ReplyDeletei've been thinking of this since i read it. it is so much harder to think of what I'D bring to he relationship .. hmm.....
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